- Posted on Tuesday, July 3, 2:25 pm
Working with many couples through the years, we have found that one of the toughest planning choices tends to be the Mother-Son dance. First, there are relatively few songs to select from when compared to songs available for the Father-Daughter dance. Second, it can be difficult to find a song whose lyrics reflect the relationship between a specific mother and son.
Who should pick the Mother-Son song? It can be selected by either the groom or his mother. Mothers usually opt for songs with lyrics that are written from the perspective of a Mother to a Son (for example, Molly Pasutti's "The Man You've Become"). When sons select the song, they will opt for a song with a general good feeling, or a song with lyrics written from the perspective of a Son to a Mother (for example, DJ Keo's "All to You").
Take a careful listen to the lyrics of your selected Mother-Son dance. Be careful not to use songs that are about the love between a husband and wife, or that contain bittersweet themes. Roberta Flack's "The First Time Ever I Saw Your Face" is an example of a song that sounds good in theory, but upon a careful listen is clearly inappropriate.
Following are our Top 20 Mother-Son Dances, with the musical genre shown in parentheses. All of these songs have been field-tested and contain appropriate lyrics and themes. Please comment with your own favorite Mother-Son songs! Also, you can view videos of all of these songs on our Mother-Son Dance Pinterest Board.
20 Suggested Mother-Son Dance Songs
- Stand By Me - Ben E. King (soul)
- I'll Always Love My Mama - The Intruders (R&B/Soul)
- Singing a Song for My Mother - Bohannon (R&B/Soul)
- A Song for Mama - Boyz II Men (R&B/Soul)
- You Raise Me Up - Josh Groban (classical)
- Close to You - The Carpenters (soft rock)
- Child of Mine - Carole King (folk)
- Song for My Son - Mikki Viereck (wedding)
- It Happens in a Heartbeat - Teresa James (wedding)
- The Man You've Become - Molly Pasutti (wedding)
- You've Got a Friend in Me - Randy Newman w/Lyle Lovett (Disney)
- The Wind Beneath My Wings - Bette Midler (vocalist)
- All to You - DJ Keo (country)
- My Wish - Rascal Flatts (country)
- I Hope You Dance - LeAnn Womack (country)
- Through the Years - Kenny Rogers (country)
- Forever Young - Alphaville (80s)
- Can't Smile Without You - Barry Manilow (vocalist)
- Simple Man - Lynrd Skynrd (classic rock)
- What a Wonderful World - Louis Armstrong (classic)
For additional Mother-Son dance song ideas, visit our friends at Wedding Music Central.
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